Salluz
Aspiring Man of God
What does it look like practically for a wife to submit to her husband like the Church submits to Christ and a husband to love his wife like Christ loves the Church?
Maybe with examples?
Maybe with examples?
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Here are some things I wrote on the subject.What does it look like practically for a wife to submit to her husband like the Church submits to Christ and a husband to love his wife like Christ loves the Church?
Maybe with examples?
One sermon that our Pastor gave.....we are dead to ourselves. He kinda laid it on the men a bit....he said..if you want a new truck and your wife wants a new car...she gets a new car....because a man who is dead does not need a new truck.Here are some things I wrote on the subject.
https://www.raptureforums.com/forums/threads/wives-submit-to-your-husbands.143523/
https://www.raptureforums.com/forums/threads/husbands-love-your-wives.143522/
The bottom line is the submission of the wife should it oppose what it is they desire, should only apply to important decision regarding what's best for the family. On almost all minor decisions, assuming the husband loves his wife like Christ loves the church, should be made in favor of the wife.
The wife want's to go dancing. The husband wants to go to a ball game. Where should they end up? Dancing the night away!
Absolutely you get your needs and wants and desires met. Your wife should be happy to see you succeed, prosper and have material things.Is a husband ever allowed to consider and advocate for his own needs, or is essentially just a case of "suck it up"? It sounds emotionally exhausting to give yourself away and not get anything back from it
Yes and no. It is one thing to express a desire, another to insist on it. Frankly, I am learning to allow God to provide for my needs. I take them to Him in prayer, and if He thinks my need is valid, He provides for it. If not, I am able to do without.Is a husband ever allowed to consider and advocate for his own needs, or is essentially just a case of "suck it up"? It sounds emotionally exhausting to give yourself away and not get anything back from it
Yes, what Mattfivefour said!Yes and no. It is one thing to express a desire, another to insist on it. Frankly, I am learning to allow God to provide for my needs. I take them to Him in prayer, and if He thinks my need is valid, He provides for it. If not, I am able to do without.
I didn't say it is easy, but dying never is. And surely that is what we are to do as Christians: die to self ... something we need the Holy Spirit to work out in us as we consciously surrender every time we find self wanting its way. The flesh is powerful! But God is greater.
The challenge is to find and stick to the willingness to die to self. I think you'll find the reward for doing do will be a more powerful ministry here and a greater eternity once we get home.
Is a husband ever allowed to consider and advocate for his own needs, or is essentially just a case of "suck it up"? It sounds emotionally exhausting to give yourself away and not get anything back from it
My mom and stepdad were just saved. This was after submitting to my husband's desire to move back with my mom last year. I was completely against it but gave it to God. Now my mom and I are closer than ever before and studying the Bible together.
My husband has also softened to the Gospel and church as a result. He's actually attended on a few occasions, something unheard of 4 years ago. He hated when I talked about Jesus at first. I am holding on to God's promise that obeying him by obeying my husband Glorifies him and can lead my husband to salvation!
I would just like to add that finding the spiritual gift God has given you and using it for God's glory is extremely rewarding. The more you do that, the more you will desire to do it. I find that many Christian either never discover what their spiritual gift is or never utilize it. Most if not all spiritual gifts are about helping others.
Salluz, Here is something I posted a while back. If you have any questions or are looking for more information regarding what I think, please let me know.I'd be interested in hearing more on what you think in another thread (to keep this one on topic) if you feel like writing more about it
One sermon that our Pastor gave.....we are dead to ourselves. He kinda laid it on the men a bit....he said..if you want a new truck and your wife wants a new car...she gets a new car....because a man who is dead does not need a new truck.
Is a husband ever allowed to consider and advocate for his own needs, or is essentially just a case of "suck it up"? It sounds emotionally exhausting to give yourself away and not get anything back from it