On Friday while I was in the hospital a lady came to my door and said hello, and that she was part of the ministry there. I smiled and invited her to come in and she did. She seemed very nervous and I guessed that maybe not to many people were very cordial to her. I asked her about her ministry and she proceeded to give me her qualifications........ok. She is an ordained laity minister in the Lutheran Church. She didn't seem to know what to talk about or what to say.: I was very nice to her trying to put her at ease but she was just tongue tied. I had already mentioned the rapture and Jesus our Blessed Hope and I think that might have been when she lost her wind. I felt so bad for her and waited quietly with a smile because she looked like she wanted to ask me some questions, but they never came. I was very nice to her but she was sweating bullets and finally took her leave. I keep thinking that I failed her somehow.ing Should I have been more aggressive somehow?